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Yaky Ink-spired: AT CROSSROADS

To cross or not to cross; that is a pertinent question.

I think crossing roads is an innate ability, like being able to dance or to skip rope; you are either born with it or you are potential fodder for fast cars.

It is a challenge making complex foot movements while dancing with a partner without mashing your partner’s—or, Heaven forbid, your own—feet into flippers. Or gauging a circling rope, in a crouch, and rocking back and forth on the balls of your feet; listening to the whap-whap-whap rhythm of the rope and attempting to synchronize your body rhythm to it; targeting the right entry and ducking under at the right moment for a skip. Experts will have a swell time, hopping over the rope scoop, and even making a dance while skipping. I felt this skill can be acquired, but after several trips, slips and spills into involuntary salaams, I have learnt to skip skipping. A skip rope, considered in the hands of experts as a recreational tool, I consider a live snare and treat as such. I also, when asked to, decline dances.

However, you can’t just decide not to cross roads. Sooner or later, you will have to face TRAFFIC, the steady stream of bi-directional metal monsters looming over and bearing down at you at lethal speeds.

Most of you must have played Tetris growing up. You remember the road-crossing game (I think it is option D2 in the menu)? I always get sweaty palms when playing the game where the player is a block of digital bytes crossing lanes of other bytes blocks and trying to avoid other bytes blocks moving in either direction from hitting him (accompanied by an awful explosion of byte blocks the sound of a synthesized crackle of vigorously rubbed cellophane and aluminium foil). When that happens, my heart jumps a bit (geddit, lol?) like I was involved in an actual accident.

After a series of successful road crosses, when you are gripped in the certainty that, after all, it is also an acquired skill which you have acquired, you cross roads more confidently. You consider the enterprise (yes, now; it is an enterprise) like a mini Indiana Jones adventure featuring you, Indy.

Then, suddenly, you lose your nerve and you are totally unhinged. The vehicles hurtle past and it is back to sweaty palm Tetris world, only realer this time. The cars barge past, each a potential lethal opportunity, a chance to kiss your ass goodbye, no pun intended. It would be bearable if you only had to cross one lane, but you have another, to consider after the first one, of cars coming in the OPPOSITE DIRECTION! So, success in crossing the first half is actually more cause for concern because you are right there in the midst of NASCAR enemy territory and might be looking to find a break in traffic when Michael Schumacher from the other lane swerves out of the line into the median area, mashing his horn, which is the last thing you hear before he makes minced meat out of you.

Consequently, you lose all spatiotemporal frames of reference you learnt in Phy 101 (you must have solved this problem or one like it: a northbound car, 5km away and moving at 200kmh, and a southbound one moving at 150kmh, when will they meet? I don’t know but I wouldn’t like to be in either –or near the road, for that matter— when they do). In fact, physics is the farthest thing from your mind.

-Cross now?

-No! Car at 50 yards, incoming!

-I can make it before—.


-See, it’s taking its time. Just wave and pass.

-No, let’s wait for the other one.

-Oh no, the other one is faster.

-The third, then.

The third, fourth and fifth pass in quick succession. By this time, you are aware that the traffic is not your friend, and if you wish to get anywhere on the other side anytime before the last Saturday of the month—which is public sanitation, and therefore all cars will be off the street—you have to do something drastic.

Damn it all, you resolve, say a quick prayer, and dash headlong into the road, hoping neither maim nor mortality befall you till you get to your destination.

Halfway through, you leap in a long jump (Chioma Ajunwa, 1996 Olympics Gold medallist) and hop unto the opposite curb, as your butt plug of frozen fear slowly melts into euphoric relief.

Only a deep-rooted sense of self-respect prevents you from banging your knees into the floor and smacking your forehead and lips repeatedly into the floor in thanksgiving. You may also hear several car horns blaring and a din of clamouring voices behind and about you. At this point, you should have the good grace to sweep around and into the elaborate bow of a composer after the performance of his magnum opus.


Because the uproar just might be the applause of adulatory fans who witnessed such a bravura road crossing.

Written by The Yakadude

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  1. The Yakadude!!! What the yak is this about? Loooool, chai, I read this bit and shook my head ‘Consequently, you lose all spatiotemporal frames of reference you learnt in Phy 101 (you must have solved this problem or one like it: a northbound car, 5km away and moving at 200kmh, and a southbound one moving at 150kmh, when will they meet? ‘

    But I can understand where you are coming from and going to. I remember sometime in 2003 on my way to work early in the morning cause I worked in a bank at the time, I was crossing the ever busy Berger-wuse roundabout in Abuja and I fell…I actually saw the underneath of the car that stopped miraculously in front of me…na thanksgiving be that o, na Baba GOD save me…

    Well done Yakadude

    • shakespeareanwalter

      Dear God in Almighty Heaven! :O It was that much of a close shave?! I hope you danced and sang your heart out, plus on top a sizeable donation to the church, on the day of your thanksgiving 😀

      • In fact ehn ShakespearenWalter…no be small close shave… CHUKWU daalu nnukwu. I coulda been dead meat. I danced ooo and thanksgiving donations to church are a regular because everyday is thanksgiving day ++

    • See, Fey, cars are dangerous things. Let’s form a group and write a petition asking the government to ban cars. We need to get back to the age of horses and camels!

      Are you up for it? Let’s fix a meet; I’ll be the one pulling up in the Beamer…and you better hop gingerly out of the way.

      • Nope, I’m not up for it…even more chaos if you ask me…age of horses and camels…no way! And remember the Yakadude, cars are only as dangerous as their owners.. a reckless driver = reckless dangerous car


  2. OHK Yaky, I get it; I totally do! You don’t dance for fear of you or your partner ‘mashing’ legs and making flippers outta ’em, you don’t jump ropes cause they’re a live snare and by golly, you DO NOT cross roads, to avert being a potential fodder for fast cars! These are one too many don’ts, do you not think?! Which brings me to the question I have been DYING to ask: WHAT THEN DO YOU DO YAKY??????? Pray, tell! *straight-faced* LMAO!

    I used to really freak out ’bout crossing roads, heck! I still get pretty terrified and frazzled even now! Was almost made a minced meat of a while back! Was in a mad rush to get to school to write an examination! Thank God for God otherwise ehn, I know I’d have effortlessly crossed over to the other side with absolutely no hitches! *smh*

    This is one very well articulated masterpiece of a ramble in true Yaky fashion! I applaud your ingenious at whipping up the original pieces that you do and like I always say; they’re totally outta the box, not safe at all, plus, they’re exclusively Yakadude! Kudos, keep bringing it! LOL

    • shakespeareanwalter

      Lol. You have a good memory of Yaky’s writeups, Yemie. Lol

    • Crossing roads is an activity that breaks 100m records; we just don’t have the inspiration to record them.

      And, Yemie darling, you ask what it is I do? Maybe we may write about that next, who knows?

      • You know babycakes, maybe you should! Write ’bout those things you like to do I mean! I’d REALLY love to know! *nodding affirmatively* ROTFLMAO!

    • Thank God you did not die. Chia, who then would I come eat Christmas food in her house? I thank God for your life oooo

      • *singing* Dream on dreamer………..LMAO! Anyikins, you know you’re impossible right, RIGHT?! Gosh! Rotfl

        • Oh i love that song. *singing* Dream on dreamer, life is just a dream…. Cmon Yermie, join me.

          • You bet am singing along alright! But we both know you’re the dreamer here don’t we now?! And as Yaky’s wont to saying, ‘just covering all the bases! Glad that’s all settled now and I can catch me a few breaths! *smh* ROTFLMAO!

    • LOL Yemie…ha ha ha

  3. Nice story, took me back to when I was younger and hated crossing roads. I looked left, right, left, right, left, right. I was basically marching before I even took a leap of faith and crossed. I believe if crossing roads was a nightmare for you, it makes you considerate to pedestrians later on when you start driving.

    • Aw! you poor you! So you used to freak out too, a bad case of ‘road crossing phobia’?! Will you just look at that! Who knew?! I’m sure you’re a confirmed Don as far as road crossing’s concerned now Anyi, and can actually school ‘novices’ on the art abi?! And you’re so right on the money ’bout folks who once had phobia to know enough ’bout being considerate to pedestrians, but in reality, a lotta peeps just get into their rides, wind up their windows, legs on the accelerator, stereo blazing and for all they know, they may as well be the ‘roadmasters’ and the only ones in the world! LMAO!

      • Yeah, i used to bebe very afraid as a little boy. I once remember while in class, i was afraid my female biology teacher would lift up her skirts and start teaching us the female reproductive system. I think i had a panic attack. I know this has nothing to do with the story above but hey, I’m anyibaba.

        • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! You’re crazy Anyi, BALLISTICS! Good thing you confirmed that which you mentioned had nothing to do with the topic of discourse; otherwise I’d have thought you were totally a lost cause, that we’d finally lost you phew! There’s still hope and for that I’d be eternally grateful! REALLY?! Chai! ROTFLMAO!

        • Loooooool! Yes, you really are Anyibaba..this got me cracking up..

    • shakespeareanwalter

      ‘I looked left, right, left, right, left, right. I was basically marching…’ Hahahahahahahaaa!!! I have a visual and it aint pretty.

  4. I totally enjoyed reading this….you captured the dynamics of road crossing too well…

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