In a Nollywood movie on Africa Magic, a “Christian” woman advises her friend to cover herself with the blood of Jesus anytime she has to have sex with her unrepentantly promiscuous husband as a “preventive” measure against STIs and highly possible HIV.
Is it just me, or is something very wrong with this? Now, I sampled this opinion elsewhere and the number of women who agreed with the above advice, made me thankful for my jaws which are fixed. If not, my mouth would have been lying open, on the ground.
Dear sister of mine, I don’t give two rats left ears what your Pastor said about “owing” your husband sex. You don’t! Marriage is a contract and one of its terms is fidelity between a husband and a wife. If your man is making a habit of housing his koboko in different containers, protect yourself with condoms or stop sleeping with him.
I said, I don’t care a twit what your so-called Christian brothers and sisters mean by saying you cannot stop sleeping with him unless by agreement. Did he agree with you before breaking those vows of fidelity?
When you catch and die of HIV, they won’t be there to raise your children as you would have. The highest eulogy you’ll get is “Eh yaaah! Poor woman…so young…”
That pastor will stand at your tomb and intone, “God giveth and God taketh…” Which God?
God giveth commonsense – USE IT!
Condoms are not of the devil – BUY THEM!
You can survive without sex – STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM!
Kai! The blood of Jesus don suffer!
This admonishment is brought to you by Eketi Ette 🙂