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Beyond The Powers of The Yoruba Demon

He called me repeatedly through the night. And I didn’t take his calls. My phone was on silent, so I didn’t hear it ringing. When I woke up, I saw the missed calls, all thirteen of them. Concern crept on me. Why would he have been calling so incessantly, this ...

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THE NIGHT OF CONFESSIONS

The first time I got head, I was tipsy. It was my very first head and let me just tell you – a head-mistress was the one who gave it to me! I’d always felt like she was too attracted to my body but never really bothered about it. I ...

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The Offshore Diaries (Entry 12)

This is a story about Sex, Viagra and Old Men. Out at sea, for some reason unbeknownst to me, libido is usually high, sometimes too high for comfort. This story begins at the tea room, the place where, while working at sea, all stories arise from. I’m at my unit, ...

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Seven Hundred And Five Condoms In The Jar

I dated her. She was a stunner and a brainiac. I was a gangly, big-headed dreamer enamoured with knowledge and the exploration of the totality of the feminine. We were both sixteen. It was the age of conquest, when boys proved themselves by the number of girls they had slept ...

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About Sex And The Age Limit

A few weeks ago, someone asked me, “Nkechi, what do you think about a 70 year old man having sex with or marrying a 25 year old woman?” I responded, “Same thing I think about any adult marrying or having sex with another adult.” When the issue of sex arises, ...

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THE PROBLEM WE HAVE WITH UNDERSTANDING SEX

There is something fundamentally wrong – and using the word ‘wrong’ here doesn’t even describe it – but yes, there is something so deeply wrong with the way we groom both girls and boys to initiate/see sex. I followed a thread on twitter recently and it was sad to see ...

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About Big Brother Naija And Permission Over A Woman’s Body

I don’t comment on Big Brother except when religious people decide to intervene. BBN has done the right thing by disqualifying a sex offender. A drunk woman can’t give informed consent. A naked woman is not informed consent or green light. Half dressed woman doesn’t mean informed consent. You cannot ...

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Too Much Wanks Spoil The Broth

So I’m at home on a Tuesday, two weeks ago, I think. I spent most of the morning masturbating. I get a call from my friend, a guy, asking me to come over, that he’s in town. An hour later, I’m still in my father’s house generally doing nothing. He ...

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THE HUSTLE OF A RAINBOW (Episode 3)

So y’all know that I was pretty excited to have Kaddy cum over. Sorry, I meant ‘come over’. *insert innocent angel face* Well, here’s the gist of how Friday went down. My parents, at the beginning of September, had shipped my younger brother off to the boarding house. It was ...

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Having Lots Of Sex Can Bring You Closer To God, Study Finds

Can having sex bring you closer to God? According to a new study, the answer is yes. Hallelujah, yes! Researchers from Duke University in North Carolina just carried an experiment where they boosted levels of oxytocin in middle-aged men. Oxytocin is a naturally-occurring hormone released in the brain during sex ...

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